Men and babies...difference?

My goodness men can be difficult sometimes!!! I'm trying to help Adam get all his stuff together so he can be a fully functioning almost Brit, but its hard work. And costly!!! We got his identity card and leave to remain sorted but there are a whole bunch of other ducks to get in a row. Like getting him registered with a Dr and getting him a bank account and a national insurance card. And I haven't even been thinking about my own ducks, who knew there were SO many people to contact about getting your name changed over. Why did nobody notify me that men can be such babies! I feel like I go over and beyond for him, I do so much and it goes so unnoticed. Or at least unthanked. Grr. Just a little moan! lol! Feel mucho better now!