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There are so many different versions of this, I just went with the first one google gave me. Love is patient, love is kind... |
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Love is patient, and love is kind, |
Adam and I had a stupid fight tonight, guess that's what I get for talking about how great he is.
Sometimes we really don't understand each other.
I hurt him by not making him feel like i'm always on his side. And he hurt me by the way he chose to speak to me.
I'm trying really hard not to stay hurt and after refusing to cry myself to sleep, i signed on here. I think its helping.
I apologised for what I said and how I'd made him feel and explained that wasn't my intention. But it didn't seem to be enough for tonight.
But I don't think he understands how much what he said hurt me and even when i'm really angry I'd never speak to him like that.
I don't know, if we're lucky enough to have a tomorrow, maybe we'll sort it out.
But i'm trying really hard not to go to sleep upset.
13 comments:
aw bless ya!! It is always more depressing in the small hours....you will be ok tomorrow Im sure...you both love each other and are doing a very hard thing!....Im sure Adam feels as bad as you do ....nite nite Linda xx
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No two people no matter how much they love each other will always agree on things. It doens't matter how much you love each other, you're two different people. After 18 years of marriage, I've learned to pick my battles. Little things are not worth arguing over. Just let them go. Never, ever end the night mad at each other. This one is very important. I have so much more I could tell ya. Forget about today and start new tomorrow.
Missie
Awwwww Shermeen, hope you and Adam make up, I hate getting in fights with a loved one, Hugs Lisa
I am sure he will be sorry tomorrow so try to get some rest..i can not tell you how many nights I lost sleep over a fight or something said...if he was wrong he will have trouble sleeping himself and will be ready to say he is sorry...I do think however people who love each other should be careful with the words they choose cause you can never take it back..but you know if he was angry and spoke with hast..and you also know if what he said is true..I remember one time Mark called me a troll...LOL..he has called me many things but this time he happen to say it when I was already down on myself...my friend said Terry are you a troll...and she laughed...she said trolls live under bridges and you don't live under a bridge do ya...LOL..any how..now I make sure I go to bed too...I also used to loose sleep in my first marriage...he always said he was sorry for things he said...mark never says he is sorry usally if he feels bad for somthing he said he makes an excuse as if i caused him to say it...big differerence in husbands...LOL..Hugs, it will all work out..you all love each other too much!! TerryAnn
I hope that Adam never again speaks to you in a way that makes you feel as you do tonight. Sometimes communication gets crossed and one does not always "get" how they sound. I hate it that you are feeling so sad...wish i could reach across an ocean to you to hug you.
Love, lisa
I hope things are better now. I have that poem in a framed poster....
hugs,
Ellen
This is the hardest part of a long distance relationship..the misunderstandings that can be cleared up with one look into each others eyes.. hope today will make things all better...
Hugs
Lyn
Hi Shermeen!! I just found you again....I'm so glad to "see" you, might I add!!
Sorry about your spat. Things probably look different today. You and Adam will be fine....your long distance relationship makes it hard on you both. Had you been talking in person, you'd have been able to work it out and not go to bed upset. Hopefully, you will both see things differently today.
Take care, Shermeen!!
Hugs,
Carol
Hi Sherms - sorry it's taken me so long to get over here. Thank you for letting me know about your new journal. I'm so glad you're back. I hope to be writing again soon. Evenmoreso I'm hoping you and Adam have worked things out. Long distance c/b tough, but you love each other and can do it. Hope you have a wonderful New Year! Love & Hugs, ~ Lori
HAPPY NEW YEAR!
CHERYL FROM MASS~
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I LOVE THAT POEM, I HAVE HEARD THAT READ AT WEDDINGS, SO TRUE IS IT NOT?
It`s so difficult going through these things. I hope it gets resolved quickly. Sorry to hear that you`re upset.
(((hugs)))
penny
You WILL have a tomorrow!!! You are bound to have arguments, it's only natural. It is so hard being so far apart, you can't see each other's faces and body language to help to understand what each other is saying. You will both be fine by tomorrow though as long as you are willing to talk about it and apologize. That is the key to a loving and long relationship, TALKING and never being to proud to say you are sorry.
Love you,
Lisa
((((Shermeen))) I hope you are in better spirits in the morning. The verse you have on here reminds me of a verse I copied on my wedding announcement. I thought it was very beautiful. Hugs-- Julie :)
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